Sydney Food Diary: Harajuka Gyoza, Potts Point

img_5794 If I don’t have any photos of the food at Harajuku Gyoza, it’s because it seems almost besides the point.

I mean, it was tasty. I liked the duck gyoza. The eggplant was delicious. Crisp little pieces of chicken karaage. Some pieces of glistening pork belly.

img_5798But more importantly, sake served by waitresses who loudly cheered as they brought them to the table. Japanese beer. Those crazy Japanese toilet seats/bidets. Cool plastic plates on the wall. Even the cheering birthday party, doing sake and singing and shouting at full voice for at least ten minutes didn’t dampen our cheer.

img_5793This place is shiny.

img_5795Hilarious.

img_5796Tasty.

And fun.

Harajuku Gyoza Menu, Reviews, Photos, Location and Info - Zomato

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Sydney Food Diary: Blossoming Lotus, Newtown

img_5800 Many years ago, when I worked in Newtown, before my weekly reiki practice sessions, I would often eat with a colleague, who was vegetarian. This was probably our favourite place. I’m glad to see it’s still around, well-loved by Zomato, and still serving tasty food.

It’s a bit of a hole in the wall, and I like that feel. From my work trips in Bangkok around that time, I can tell you that this place has got a very similar feel to casual eateries dotted around the city.

img_5804The food is all in bain-marie trays, and that’s part of the fun. What delights are on offer: for they are all vegan, and are often those fantastic Asian substitutes for meat: a version of duck; something tasty with soy, various curries. You can order one, two or three choices on plain rice, fried rice or noodles. I always go for the fried rice.

img_5803And while the food might look plain, there’s something really very tasty about it, and it kind of makes me happy to be there and eat there. They often have posters up about meditation classes. They also sell some of their desserts to take home. It feels to me like a very sincere family-run place, with a clear philosophy of serving Sydney’s vegetarians (and others) with tasty, and inexpensive food. In fact, it’s cheap as chips. I think it was $12 for my Sunday night, casual dinner.

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Blossoming Lotus Menu, Reviews, Photos, Location and Info - Zomato

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Sydney Food Diary: Maggie’s, Potts Point

img_5805 After seeing a show at the Hayes Theatre (Side Show, very enjoyable), my better half suggested we eat a schnitzel. Una’s or Maggie’s? I asked. Maggie’s was closer. A venerable institution and not on quite as busy a strip as Una’s, Maggie’s serves up hearty German fare: cabbage rolls, goulash, pork roast and dumplings. But the thing is, either at Una’s or Maggie’s, I can never go past the veal or chicken jager schnitzel.

img_5806It is a perfect thing: thin, crispy, meaty, and served with a creamy mushroom sauce, along with some perfectly done rosti potatoes and a light cabbage coleslaw on the side (which is a great contrast). In fact, I think the portions here may be a tiny bit smaller than Una’s, and that’s a good thing, since I’ve felt overstuffed at Una’s in the past.

Service is efficient and friendly; I was amused that all of them were Asian brothers last night.

Maggie's Potts Point Menu, Reviews, Photos, Location and Info - Zomato

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Sydney Food Diary: Kawa, Surry Hills

img_5759 Kawa is an institution, and I have drunk a lot of coffees from here in my time, though I think I had a phase of chai latte too… The tables outside are, to me, what Surry Hills is all about, or should be about, and it’s always surprised me that there’s not more outdoors seating in the neighbourhood, to watch our diverse community walk by with dogs, shopping bags and briefcases.

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I have always found the food, coffee and service here dependable, and as I expected, it was a lovely place to have Sunday brunch with my pal Cameron, visiting from Brisbane.

Kawa Menu, Reviews, Photos, Location and Info - Zomato

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Sydney Food Diary: Chicken Parma at the Bat & Ball, Redfern

img_5747 As a Chinese-Canadian, I’ve observed how different dishes are transformed from country to country and sometimes emerge as an interesting hybrid. A number of North American Chinese dishes are not known in China. In a similar way, Australia seems to have developed a number of food items that have taken on local identities. My pal, James, who’s been in Sydney about a year reminded me of the Chicken Parmiagiana phenomenon here.

Melanzane alla parmigiana from Southern Italy was the original dish, according to some sources: fried eggplant with a sprinkling of breadcrumbs and parmesan. Cooks applied this technique to other vegetables, but in Italy, not to meat. Home cooks in the USA in the 50s decided to amp up this dish, breading and deep-frying either chicken or veal, smashed into a thin patty, covered in tomato sauce and then with enough melted cheese on it to form a thick shiny layer.

And so to Australia. Veal isn’t so popular here, but chicken is. Pubs serve beer and food, and if you haven’t been to Australia, you might not know that the pubs here are huge. At one time, pubs were only allowed to serve drinks to travellers, so they added a few rooms on the floor above the bar, which usually takes up the entire ground floor, and many of the bars here still have the word ‘hotel’ in their name. The food served is often cheap, hearty, quick fare, best eaten with beer while watching sport on the TVs hanging from the ceiling or projected on the wall.

img_5748Thus the chicken parmiagiana (or parma, for short) is an Australian pub classic, and even pubs that have relatively modern menus bow to tradition and put chicken parma on the menu. There are blog sites dedicated to finding the best chicken parma in Australia. This fellow ate one chicken parma a week for an entire year.

I’ve had the dish many a time in my years in Australia (though often order the chicken schnitzel, or schnitty for short) but James seems to be making himself an expert, and said indeed, that the one at the Parkside Bar at the Bat & Ball in Redfern was one of the best he’s had, maybe in the top 3 out of around 20. That’s an impressive ranking.

Mine was delicious, and the serving of fried kale on the side I thought gave it a modern edge (rather than with fries!). The pub itself has a good vibe, fairly empty that Friday night though people were watching comedy in a back room, with 80s retro music a little loud.

Parkside Bar at The Bat & Ball Menu, Reviews, Photos, Location and Info - Zomato

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Sydney Food Diary: Tigerbakers, Darlinghurst

img_5768Victoria Street in Darlinghurst is a strange combination of businesses that have been there forever (hello Tropicana) and other storefronts that seem to be constantly changing. There are a few higher-end restaurants, quite a few casual places, and a number of in-between. It’s sensational for people watching.

Tigerbakers has stood the test of time. It’s long-established, and has a nice casual feel, all wood furnishings inside, a nice little balcony, and some outside seating. It kind of feels like it could be anywhere: Amsterdam, Toronto, London, Sydney.

img_5767It’s standard cafe fare, but they do a good enough job. My pal had a green juice and a muffin. I was in the mood for a heartier full breakfast. Eggs: delicious. Bacon: nicely done. Sausage: boring and not so tasty as sausages go. Toast and mushies: fine. I’ve never liked roasted tomatos so am not a fair judge. Crispy hashbrown. Mmm…

I think this all adds up to a solid option for a simple meal in the ‘hood, and there’s a nice men’s clothing shop next door, Circa75, if you’re into that sort of thing…

Tigerbakers Menu, Reviews, Photos, Location and Info - Zomato

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Sydney Food Diary: Goshu Ramen Tei, CBD

img_5777 When I meet my pal Ben for lunch in the City, we wander up from the top end of Kent Street to this little place at the corner of York and Jamison. It has outside seating, has been quite busy both times, and is charming and casual.

It’s tasty, traditional food. I might have had the same thing both times, even if it was over a year apart. I can never go by Japanese curry. It is, as Japanese curry should be, hearty and slightly sweet. They serve it with rice, pickles and a few lettuce leaves, and washed down with some Japanese cold tea was rather nice.

I usually have it with pork tonkatsu (mmm… crispy pork) but decided to be different and have it with chicken karaage, which was tasty enough, though not as beautifully crisp as some other casual Japanese places I’ve been to.

img_5779Ben had the salmon teriyaki bento box, and passed no ill comments on it. About $40 for the two of us for lunch, two mains, two drinks. What a nice sunny day it was.
Goshu Ramen Tei - The York Hotel Menu, Reviews, Photos, Location and Info - Zomato

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Sydney Food Diary: Chez Sun, Darlinghurst

img_5933 I don’t mind being proved wrong at all. I had cruelly passed by this cafe many times. Why? Well, there are so many options in the neighbourhood, for coffee and lunch, and when it first opened, it was so empty (albeit shiny) that to me, something seemed a bit out of place. It wasn’t homey enough for Surry Hills or Darlinghurst, I thought.

img_5752But then, my pal Davy ignored my recommendation to meet him at The Goods, and I saw him sitting there instead. Why not? There was a nice buzzy crowd on a Saturday afternoon including a very cute small Asian girl with cat ears and a cat t-shirt. With people there, it didn’t look sterile at all.

img_5758My coffee was perfectly fine, and D seemed fine with his tea. I suppose coffee would be my only strike against the cafe, as the lattes only come in one size (I’d wanted a large) and then to follow my first, I wanted a decaf (as 3pm is too late for me to drink a regular coffee). But no decaf.

Luckily, the rest of the items made up for it. Check out the beautiful presentation on this open-faced sandwich which D had. He said it was delicious and everything was very fresh.

img_5753And then… the desserts. So, I was obsessed with pastries during my time in Paris, and I made a point of treating myself to them. Even the neighbourhood bakeries had such high quality fare, so beautifully presented. There are no many coffee and pastry outlets in Sydney where the pastries in the display case don’t even look appealing.

And then, all over Paris, there are luxury pastry shops, where individual creations by well-known chefs, sparkle like little jewels in their cases, each with a tempting description. In Sydney, so far, there are few of these, Adriano Zumbo, certainly, with his modern creations,  but I can’t think of one fancy pastry place in Surry Hills/Darlo.

img_5755Until now. Davy had a beautiful grapefruit mousse concoction, light and airy, a crunchy bit on the bottom, a gel, a beautiful light pink covering. And I had an earl grey tea chocolate concoction, super rich, with different textures, and really, really pretty. Plus, they were only $8 or $9 each; I think the equivalent in Paris would be 1.5 or twice the cost. I was very impressed. They’re advertised as made in-house, and there are a lot more varieties, of which, I will be trying them all…

img_5935In fact, I went back about six weeks later, and discovered that the upstairs is a lovely area, open and light, and we particularly liked the passionfruit pastry (though opted again for the rick and delicious earl grey tea chocolate one, see the photo at the top of the post). We had both had a heavy lunch at White Taro though, and should have split one pastry between the two of us. We were that full.

Chez Sun Menu, Reviews, Photos, Location and Info - Zomato

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Sydney Food Diary: Muum Maam, Barangaroo

img_2939If you’ve stumbled across my post on Muum Maam in Surry Hills, you’d know that I think it’s one of the best Thai restaurants in Sydney, though unsung. It doesn’t get the same attention as a number of other Thai restaurants, but should. Their new location in Barangaroo should help this, as it brings Surry Hills’s favourite dishes and adds some new ones, and hopefully will reach a whole new clientele.

img_2936I have to admit that I haven’t explored Barangaroo at all, so didn’t know where the new restaurant precinct was. It’s just north of King Street Wharf and south of the new park. Everything is so shiny and tall, the area feels like an Asian city like Singapore or Hong Kong. Around the restaurants, there was a good buzz, and it seems like people are discovering the area, but will enough people come here to support all of these restaurants?

img_2938In any case, if you’re in the area, do go to Muum Maam. We couldn’t go by the mouthfuls of betel leaf, with smoked trout and tamarind and lime and more. Always a favourite. But I hadn’t tried the Barramundi spring rolls, and these were beautiful, light and elegant.

img_2935These duck spring pancakes though were our favourite of the entrees; a perfect combo of textures, note there are two layers, a delicate wrapping, a thin fried pancake, and inside fresh herbs and bean sprouts and tender duck.

img_2937For mains, a yellow curry with crispy noodles and beef cheeks; and a banana blossom salad, and a new dish, twice cooked pork. As you could expect: very rich, but not too rich to devour.

img_2940And then to finish, a dessert we’ve never tried: monkey balls. Pandan and coconut gelato with caramelised cashews, and rolled in toasted coconut and I think maybe more nuts. It was a really beautiful combination, very Asian flavours, the roasted and caramelised notes were almost savoury against the light flavours of the gelato. Really beautiful.

img_2941It was opening night, so we were able to BYO (but from now on, they’re licensed and will have a full selection of alcohol).

This really was a sensational meal, with great service, and I wish them all the best.

Muum Maam Menu, Reviews, Photos, Location and Info - Zomato

(As a customer over a number of years, we were invited to their opening, and treated to this meal. The opinion is mine, however, and I can’t honestly think of anything negative that a complimentary meal would make me gloss over!)

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How to live: Projections and shadows

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In conversation with this guy I was dating for not more than a few months, I did my regular joke/not joke, in response to something he’d said. ‘Projeeeecting…’, I commented.

To my surprise, he said, ‘I have no idea what you’re talking about.’

So,  I realised at once that I hung around people who knew about the concept of projection, that I knew about the concept of projection, and that somehow, this guy I was dating had little in common with people I usually hung around.

But what is projection? At it’s simplest, it’s an easy concept: when we project our desires, hopes and resentment onto others; and when we assign the emotions or beliefs that we ourselves hold to someone else. It’s easier that way. ‘You look really hungry.’ (Said when in fact it is you who is hungry). ‘Don’t you think you’d be more comfortable if you just took things less seriously’ (Said both because you’d like the other person to be less serious, and also because you’d feel more comfortable if you took things less seriously).

I’m not sure how much to trust Wikipedia these days, it explains the concept of Psychological Projection well enough. It seems like the concept was popularised under Freud. Good old Freud.

There is already useful writing up on the web by others about projection and how it usually isn’t so great for our lives, so I don’t think I need to try to rewrite that. Aletheia Luna, for example, has got up a blog post on 6 examples of projection that we’re prone to. NoBullying.com, which sounds like they’re doing some pretty good work in the world, also seems to have a good general article about projection, an ‘elusive concept‘.

What took my understanding of projection to a new level was encountering and reading about the ‘shadow’ self. Here we’ve moved on from Freud to Jung, and there are both complex articles about it, explained in traditional psychological terms (such as here from Psychology Today) and more modern interpretations. My dear friend Thomas studied with Debbie Ford, who popularised and modernised the concept of the shadow by encouraging people to embrace their shadows and integrate them into their personality.

The most powerful example of the shadow self for me is in the way we hate, sometimes, what we are. I remember a lightbulb moment when the first research came out showing that the men who are most likely to espouse hateful views against gay men, or to bully us, or to exert physical violence, are in fact those who are attracted to other men, but suppressing it. An unfortunate true-life illustration of the shadow: literally killing or trying to kill a part of yourself that you don’t want to face.

So, the concept of shadows comes up a lot in bullying and bad behaviour. I was surprised when I was able to face myself and apply that theory to my life. Could it be true that the people I disliked the most were the people I actually wanted to be? I had worked a few years already at the same workplace, where people were always fighting and treating each other badly. There were two people who I particularly disliked. One had been promoted to a managerial position, where he promptly stopped greeting or talking to anyone else but the managers. I found that ridiculously bad behaviour. The other person was somewhat psychologically damaged. He had bad body odour and hygiene, and didn’t seem to care, and did little work, playing computer solitaire all the time, though the director of the organisation treated him as if a royal eccentric, rewarding him with one of the highest salaries among us. He would suddenly produce work every few months which was overpraised.

img_2465Reading about the shadow self, and taking a hard look at myself, I had to admit: a part of me wanted to be them. Having always had pride in the way I treated other people, and focused (or even obsessed) over the issues of how we treat each other equitably and fairly, I didn’t realise that a part of me thought what a relief it would be not to care! And how amazing it would be to not feel bad if I was an arsehole to other people!

The same applied to the smelly co-worker. How impressive to either have the confidence or lack of awareness to not care about how he appeared! And, because I’ve always been very serious about work, about putting in hard work and doing a good job (and wanting to be recognised for it), how freeing it would to not care, and not suffer any consequences!

Did it make me like them more? Not particularly. But it did make me step back, to tone down the bitterness and realise that these shadow versions of myself, these projections had something to teach me. Some of my values have served me well, but now if I meet others who are quite opposite, I can sometimes (though not always) respect our different approaches. And I do keep myself in check more, and in observing others, see that the times we often react most badly to other people is really not about them: it’s about us.

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